It feels too good to be true
I’m scared my self-doubt and my fears, and the chatter in my mind is going to manifest into reality and i’ll jinx myself, and it will all get taken away
That i’ll sabotage myself
That I have to pinch myself because things like this don’t happen to me
I’m scared of losing it
Will it all just crash around me and I’ll wake up and realise of course things like this don’t happen to me
Do you honestly believe that you can have it?!
This just isn’t my life
It feels too good to be true
Yet it feels so right
I desperately want to cling to it
To make it mine
To take control
I’m not gonna lose it
I’m not gonna lose my dreams
When they feel this good
When they’re this close
How distraught I’d be
How it is my biggest fear….that when I get what I want, when good things come along, they suddenly get ripped away from me
That things weren’t as I imagined
And you’re left with nothing
That I’m not gonna get the ‘happy ending’ I desire
That it’s kind of existing in your head and you’re struggling to truly own it….grasp it and hold onto it and know that that dream and amazingness you’ve dreamt of and desired is yours to keep
It feels like a part of me will break if I lose it…..
….My biggest fear when going for my dreams and desires and when I start to receive them….is it feels too good to be true!
So I decided recently I’m choosing to believe “Nothing is too good to be true, things can only get better”.
The beliefs that you choose will impact your reality. If you want to create all the amazing things that you truly dream and desire …even the things that feel too good to be true what do you need to believe?
You know that feeling when you feel sooooo attached to the outcome
You don’t want to lose control, you want to take control of it, cling to it in anyway possible, you want to force it somehow, anyhow to be yours….so that you know you can’t lose it ever.
That if the desired outcome doesn’t manifest in the way you imagine, and the way you desire, that it will feel like a piece of you has been ripped apart from you
That you can feel the fear of it not coming true in the pit of your stomach
You just CANT lose it
Yet you can’t control outcomes…..you can do your part and you have to leave the rest up to fate….to the universe, to trust that the outcome you receive is in your highest interest
That as long as you’re staying true to you….going within and creating and being from within….trust that when you’re in alignment to your heart and SOUL (aka who you truly are) you can only attract amazing things….
When you lose something trust that it isn’t in alignment with you, that you are destined for something that feels even better!!!
That things can only get better
That you can only get MORE into alignment with who you are and your heart, and you’re going to stand back up and claim your dreams and desires again, and next time the outcome will be even better than you experienced last
Why should you believe there’s a limit to your happiness? Why put a ceiling on how much happiness, wealth and love you can receive. That once you experience one level….you can constantly up level and get better and better and better
Things can ONLY get better than you imagine.
And once you’ve experienced something amazing that feels ‘too good to be true’ have faith that there is a next level of so called ‘too good’…..that it can only get better.
So it takes away some of the fear, and allows you to jump in and allow yourself to fully experience it because there is MORE and BETTER of it
You’re not going to fall DOWN the ladder of goodness
You’re only going to go UP!!!
And you can only continue going up….never down….and it is a never ending ladder of goodness…the more amazingness and goodness you experience…there is only ever more. And you decide how far up the ladder you’re going to climb
You’re never going to reach the top of amazingness because its limitless
So nothing can ever be too good to be true
Because there is always better
Don’t expect to get there and have IT and be satisfied because there is always better to strive for…
Don’t be so focused on getting ‘it’ and getting ‘there’….you’re never meant to get THERE in life….it’s always about walking forward to your horizon and big picture vision.
Believing that something is too good to be true comes from believing once you have this….once a certain outcome is YOURS to own completely then you’ll be happy. You will self-sabotage if you’re focused on an outcome rather keeping your eye on your bigger picture.
So don’t pin all your hopes on that outcome because you’ll never get there….it will never bring you ultimate satisfaction….it’s not a checklist of once you have this and then this then you’ll be happy….you’re always climbing up the ladder to more, to the next thing, creating even more happiness and amazing experiences in your life. There is only ever more…..so when you hold onto THAT outcome you’re choosing to believe there isn’t more…that there is a limit….that there is a lack of greatness and amazingness
There is only more
There is only limitless
There is only better
Nothing is too good to be true
There can only ever be better
Ask for that or BETTER
Believe if it feels too good to be true….that you can experience even better! And that should excite you and drive you, and lessen the fear of losing because you will experience better….you can have IT but know that you could experience it in an even more amazing way than your mind can imagine….if you don’t get IT….know you can experience something else even BETTER!
Nothing is too good to be true
Don’t believe your mind when it tells you that, when it wants to keep you safe….when it wants to trick you into believing in smallness, in limits, in lack, in less, in ‘things like that don’t happen to you’. Because your mind can only believe and tell you what it knows….it can’t imagine beyond, it can’t believe in greatness, only your heart can, so follow the feelings of goodness and believe in them and have faith in them, that even if your mind can’t see how it could get better….know there is a way beyond what the mind is capable of imagining, you just have to trust, and ignore the chatter in your mind that tells you ‘logical’ and rational thoughts….it is sabotaging you.
Otherwise you’re creating a reality of good things don’t happen to you, when good things happen to you, you sabotage or mess them up and lose them, that you have to settle for way less than what you want, that you accept crappiness, you end up just trying to survive rather than thrive, you end up not living to your fullest potential, you end up making your life hard, you end up making happiness and good things down to ‘luck’, you give your power away of being able to create your life and happiness, you choose to believe you’re not meant to be SO happy, that you’re not destined to be happy and get what you want, that you’re not meant to get what you want in this life, that you have to struggle, that life is about struggling to get what you want and if you’re lucky you may get it….that those types of things don’t happen for you, they’re reserved for them, you tell yourself you’re ‘grateful’ for what you do have (and you try to hide from the fact that you know your life could be so much more….that you could give so much more if you allowed yourself to have better and more!)….you end up making yourself a victim to suffering, unhappiness and not getting what you want in life, rather than taking responsibility for your reality, that you are responsible and CAN create the happiness and all you desire!
Trust how good you feel inside when you experience something you desire and know it TOTALLY belongs to you that feeling….you DESERVE to have that feeling, you came on this earth to experience that feeling…that was your hearts purpose and why you were born…..that right wasn’t reserved for a select lucky few, or those who ‘earnt’ it….it is your automatic right whoever you are….follow that feeling and know it can only get soooo much better if you allow it
It is your duty to experience even more amazingness so you can give more amazingness back to other people….it is your duty to climb up the ladder of goodness and keep going and going and going….it is your duty to believe that your path of amazing never ends, it is your duty to not go down the ladder, it is your duty to take responsibility and create your reality, aka why would you not create it to be the best it can be?! It is your duty to! If you choose to not be a victim/the effect of life!
You didn’t come here to suffer….to have desires and dreams and experience things that are ‘too good to be true’ and have them snatched away or made to believe YOU can’t have them! You can have them and more!
Desire….dream…..ask for this or something better and have faith that you’re totally deserving and will receive that!
If you feel unworthy of so much amazingness and fear sabotaging…the only way to NOT self-sabotage is to keep striving for more, NEVER settling on that level of the ladder….to keep chasing more and better! To be grateful but never satisfied, to be frustrated with just how much MORE you can be and do and have! And when you are MORE you give MORE to others in every way possible! It isn’t selfish to go for more…it is your duty!
Go get better! Up level….constantly!