2017 = the year of amazingness. Are you with me?
+ I commit to truly stepping up and believing in my amazingness
+ I commit to being the amazing woman inside me
+ I commit to surrounding myself with amazing people
+ I commit to working with amazing people
+ I commit to feeling and following what feels amazing
+ I commit to creating more amazingness!
+ I commit to surrendering to all amazingness around me so it flows to me
+ I commit to being an even more amazing version of me
+ I commit to being even more amazingly inspired
+ I commit to doing amazing work
+ I commit to amazing dreams and a life vision
Some lessons I’m truly grateful for learning in 2016…
+ True REAL happiness and AMAZINGNESS IS your destiny if you choose to listen within and believe it….there is no doomed unluckiness and not good enough you have to believe in! You have to know that when you experience something that makes you feel sad, feel hopeless, feel depressed, frustrated….angry….that its because YOU have chosen not to believe in you (at your heart) and be true to you! The universe is PUSHING you to step up and claim amazingness for yourself by being true to the real you (who IS amazing)….as SOON as you connect back to the true you at the heart and follow what’s true for you, the universe will shift around you to support you, in magical and MIRACULOUS ways! But you have to choose to go within and listen to the true you and be so true to THAT!
+ Environment really is EVERYTHING! Surround yourself with things and people that INSPIRE and support/BELIEVE in you, your vision, your SOUL, and LIGHT something within…and walk (RUN) away from anything less! When you’re surrounded by criticism, negativity, limited SMALL beliefs and abuse they’ve manifested outside of you from something within you. When you tolerate the negativity and abuse against you outside, you are tolerating and believing the negativity and abuse you give yourself inside! You reaffirm it and SOAK it up unconsciously….environment IS like osmosis and it seeps into your cells! Don’t tolerate soaking up anything less than AMAZING because when your environment is amazing it propels you forward! A tiny piece of rubbish here and there that doesn’t reflect the amazingness of your vision adds up and slows you down and keeps you in resistance.
+ The you inside is so infinitely amazing and RIGHT exactly how you naturally are…and PERFECTLY good enough as you are….the TRUE you at your heart and soul, the one that isn’t shaped by your mind and your negative chatter, the shoulds and expectations you place on yourself. You have everything you need inside you (worth, happiness…love)….empower yourself by trusting and having faith in you ALONE and finding your true REAL strength in you ALONE based on NOTHING and everything! As soon as you give your strength and power away to someone, something, to believing anything superficial (aka not real) and anything unloving to you, to placing your belief and need in outside stuff, you’re in trouble! The answers to everything, the support, the love and happiness you need is all inside you….everytime you connect to THAT then it manifests outside you like a mirror. Stay in, and mind only YOUR business, be so grounded in yourself by truly learning to love and have faith in the REAL you and let that empoweredness manifest outside of you! So nothing on the outside (all temporary) can rock your happiness.
+ There is absolutely NO negativity or fear you need to buy into, no toxicness, NO practicalness, no impossible, no LACK or smallness, not good enough, no wrong or badness in you, no criticism you have to tolerate, feel responsible or guilty for (no matter how much THEY say you have to)! The ONLY thing you should fear is if you can’t look yourself deeply in the eye in the mirror because you see how much you have hurt yourself, how much it has cost you NOT believing in you! For killing your soul every time you wake up and can literally feel how much you’re letting yourself down!
+ You have a CHOICE to be a conscious powerful creator of everything in your life….choose to be the cause, don’t feel like a puppet being controlled by something else more powerful than you (if you do work on your self-sabotage and childhood blocks), you can consciously create EVERYTHING that is around you completely true to you and walk away from anything that doesn’t feel good…right…be sooooo honest and nitpicky about everything in your life and keep reclaiming your power & control. You can FEEL the people, the situations, the things that you think you have to ‘put up with’ and settle for….the feelings of frustration of how you know your life could be so much more – listen to those nagging feelings because they are sooooo real! Your body….your heart is ALWAYS right, your feelings scream the truth to you!
Here’s what I’m soooo grateful for creating and manifesting in 2016 as a result of all the above:
+ Being able to live in beautiful Bali
+ Finally having a beautiful little Bali home with a beautiful friend
+ Fun loving friends who make me LAUGH and inspire me to let my hair down!
+ A soul friend who GETS it! who’s on the same/similar journey as me
+ The inspiring people who have inspired me DEEPLY…DAILY and inspired me to step up to better
+ A deeper connection with myself
+ All the magic and miraculous ways the universe has supported me to give me EVERYTHING I needed in Bali to feel safe loved and taken care of, the synchronicities and signs I have manifested
+ Waking up with passion and purpose getting lost in work I enjoy
+ Believing in the real me
+ Clarity on my life vision and certainty
+ Pinch myself feelings of bliss and gratitude
I’m also grateful for the negative I started 2016 with (which I almost started this post with)…
+ for the darkness I experienced inside me
+ the self-hate I had for myself
+ the abuse I received and believed from men in my life
+ the deep unhappy and UNCOMFORTABLE nagging feelings inside me that told me this isn’t how life is meant to be, the LOST and messy feeling I felt inside in who I was, deeply craving purpose passion and meaningfulness yet believing I must be doomed
+ the utter exhaustion of constantly putting on a face that everything is ok…from placing all your energy into people pleasing worry and anxiety
+ the loneliness of feeling like you can’t be the TRUE you, you can’t share deeply what’s REALLY going on with the people closest around you, you don’t have anyone who gets it, who can support you in the way you need and would love
+ the feelings of wanting to RUN from everything because you can’t take THIS anymore
I’m grateful because if it wasn’t for this
+ I would have settled even more for things that didn’t feel right
+ I would have slipped further away from the real me
+ I wouldn’t really get what TRUE happiness feels like when you start to develop a rock solid feeling in who you are
+ I wouldn’t feel truly and IMMENSELY grateful for everything I created as a result of doing all the INNER work
+ I wouldn’t have booked a one way ticket to Bali
+ I wouldn’t have had the courage to walk away from EVERYTHING and jump into a completely new life and keep going even when it was hard, super scary and lonely
+ I wouldn’t be pushing myself to bigger things in 2017
+ I wouldn’t BELIEVE 2017 could be even more amazing!
+ and most importantly I wouldn’t believe in the amazingness that is inside me
I turned the negative into positive purely because
+ I journaled DAILY all year
+ I committed to working on my mindset DAILY through journaling around my limiting beliefs to get my breakthroughs, I wrote from the heart the things I needed to hear every day to change my perspective and push me out of stuckness…I journaled daily my dreams and vision and everything I wanted to manifest around me
+ I committed to working on my deep fear stories with my life coach
+ I committed to meditating daily for peace, clarity and inspiration
+ I committed to having a non-negotiable morning routine to ground me, to keep me conscious
+ I committed to listening to my heart, trusting my feelings, and learning to truly believe in me, the REAL me and follow that
+ I committed to stop tolerating the self-doubt around following my dreams, my negative self-chatter, and feeling SMALL and not good enough
+ I committed to dreaming bigger and not settling for things that felt mediocre, that gave me that niggling feeling that this wasn’t RIGHT
And I know I have to continue to commit to all these things DAILY because I’m committed to always being a better version of me! I have to choose DAILY to NOT tolerate listening to and acting from a place of self-doubt, feeling small and anything less than the amazing person in me, giving my POWER away to others, and not tolerating CHOOSING self-sabotaging patterns.
Because as soon as I stop committing to these things and start tolerating any of the above then I fall out of my heart and into my mind and back into a black hole of negativity
Because I COMMIT to creating 2017 to be AMAZING, to truly step into the AMAZING woman inside me. I commit to releasing ‘holding on’ tightly and trying to control outcomes and really and truly surrendering…. to ALLOW amazing things to flow and come to ME easily and effortlessly as a result of inside me.
What do you commit to 2017 being for you?!
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