What if you knew….even though from a practical point of view it looked impossible to have NOW…..what if you knew you COULD have your dreams NOW!!
Because your dreams are impractical…dreams are a different level to practical, limits, so you’re going to have to break the ‘practical’ rules and believe in the impractical, believe in the impossible to get there. And realise it is down to you deciding, however much you decide, are you going to make this happen NOW?
Why do you keep putting it in the future? That you have to get there…..why can’t you have it NOW? Everything you’re doing….you’re prolonging, you’re waiting, you’re making it ever more distant. You CAN have it now! It seems impossible from where you are, but honestly you really can have it now! You can start making things happen now! Decide now….or are you going to carry on waiting?! …..you’re doing something else to support you while you get there, you research and create back up plans….and back up plans for your back up plans, you’re constantly freaking out about whether or not it’s gonna work. You’re allowing failing to come into the equation….
Why can’t you have it now?! If you say you’re absolutely all in your dreams, you’re so in, then why aren’t you jumping up to grab them now? Why do you keep making yourself wait?! Why aren’t you being ruthless?! Why do you keep believing you have to ‘wait’ until you’re there for it to happen. Only when you’re there can it happen. Your life is now….if you continue living like this you’ll never get there. You know this! Because you’ve been waiting until you’re there for days….months….years and you’re still not there! It doesn’t take ‘time’ to sort it out….to get there….to prepare yourself for there…..it takes you deciding to be there now! It doesn’t take you doing this and then that and then this….and then months later….you still need a bit more time, a bit more support, a bit more journaling….a bit more money, a bit more knowledge…..a bit more clarity…a bit more perfection….you need to feel more confident, more good enough, more justified/get the validation somehow that you are entitled for it before you can have it.
No you don’t.
You just need to decide!
….no matter how much you feel you’re not quite there yet! The only time is NOW…..you’re good enough right now, you have everything right now INSIDE you to create what you want……you don’t ‘need’ anything else….you don’t need to wait for more….to feel More, to be ‘better’, to have more ‘experience’, to feel more ‘qualified’, to feel more confident, good enough….rich enough….bold enough….you will never get there if you don’t decide to be there NOW….to be good enough NOW! Even if you don’t ‘feel’ good enough now! Step up anyway. Fake it until you ‘make’ it!
Because the truth is You are so so good enough and capable now, and if you absolutely in mind body soul decide that the time is now, things will shift and miracles will happen! But you have to keep deciding that NOW….every hour, every second….keep reaffirming to yourself you are doing this now, you can have your dreams now, no matter how many times you have to pick yourself up from not believing, from wanting to hide, from feeling like a failure, from the waves of self-doubt…
There is no point in waiting until you CAN make your life better, the way you imagined, there is no point making do….until you can have your dreams….there is no point settling. If you can have what you want NOW….what do you need to do to have it now?! Because you CAN have what you dream of now….somehow you’ve decided to prolong it, you’ve decided you’re not good enough or worthy enough or ready enough to have it now. Which is your mind keeping you limited. If you just acknowledged what your heart wants, and TRAIN your mind….got so military ruthless with your mind that you CAN have it now and you’re going to stop at NOTHING to have it now…..no matter how impossible it is looking, you can have it now!!!
I understand you’re full of self-doubt, you’re not PREPARED….you haven’t finished doing all the things that need doing before you can be there, you’re not feeling good enough, feeling like a ‘fraud’, you don’t feel ready enough YET for it….you feel like you’re jumping into the deep end, you feel like you’re throwing yourself of a cliff…..
I know you’re like me….you’re full of self-doubt yet you’re impatient….you’re full of dreams and ideas that you want NOW….nothing else is good enough, you’re not willing to settle! You’re so stubborn inside! The waiting….the future time when you think you’ll eventually have your dreams is killing you! The frustration of them being so close yet so far…..is driving you insaneeeee! Where it feels soooo close it feels too good to be true but at the same time you’ve not QUITE got them yet…..
I know you keep telling yourself today IS the day its happening! ….I know how much you cry asking the universe WHEN is it gonna happen?! When are things going to click into place?! WHEN is everything going to be better?! are you EVER going to get to a place where you’re like you’ve made it?! Where suddenly everything is going to be the hunky dory dream you had in mind….that you’ve been dreaming about for years….setting as your new years resolution for years. Are you going to make it?! I know how much you’re crying inside wondering will your dreams ever come true….that you can’t TAKE this STRUGGLE to get there…..feeling like you’re CONSTANTLY failing…..wondering WHEN you’re going to get the break….wondering WHAT needs to happen?!
Ground yourself into the present….the only time is NOW. The quickest way to kill your dreams is to put them into the future….the WHENS are killing them.
Who do you need to be TODAY to have your dreams?! What do you need to DO today to have your dreams?! How do you need to feel…..think…be if you were the person who has your dreams?!
Decide NOW….every day, every hour, every minute that you are living your dreams NOW!!! And do whatever that looks like for you! There is ALWAYS something you can be doing…..If your dreams could EASILY be achievable NOW….which they could be…we somehow like to make our lives harder, because we don’t BELIEVE fully in ourselves, if your dreams were easy and achievable now what would you be doing?!
Would you be crying and full of self doubt?! Would you feel like giving up?! Would you be feeling beaten?! Would you be losing faith?
….if you’re questioning IF you’ll ever get there….that you’re going to fail so you better start working on your back up plan, look to the NOW….unless you’ve failed RIGHT now?! Unless your life is literally unravelling around you right now?! Then a lot can happen until you’re there! Believe in the magic that can happen between then and now and concentrate on now and who you need to be to create that magic.
My favourite life coach Martha Beck said, unless an animal can look at you and SEE and also recognise you have a problem then you don’t have a problem…..the problem only exists in your mind. For example, you say you need more money. Unless you PHYSICALLY are at the till needing to pay and don’t have the money then that isn’t your problem NOW…..if that makes sense. If you keep focusing on the future event….the time when you get to the till because you NEED to pay for that thing and worrying how the hell you will pay for it and you aren’t even there yet, if you keep focusing and worrying then that is what you’ll create….Focus on what you need to BE and Do NOW and trust in the magic that when you’re being and doing in your true purpose, striving in your heart’s vision, things shifts around you. The future event/problem is an illusion and your mind keeping you distracted from your heart.
You worry whether you’re good enough, you worry you don’t have the confidence, you worry HOW…..how is that helping?!
You’re just playing into your mind….that keeps tricking you and holding you back telling you you need the perfect strategy. There is no perfect strategy….anything CAN get you to where you want to be if you believe it, if you ARE it. So focus on BEING your dreams! NOW NOW NOW!
You absolutely CAN be and do your dreams somehow someway right NOW! If you can find a way to be do and have your dreams NOW even if its in the tiniest way….you’ll see magic happening!
You need to pay the bills you say….you need more money to pay for that you say…..so you need to focus on finding more work….on doing the work…on doing the job (which isn’t really what you envision in your dream life….), you need to wait til people notice you, you need to wait until you’ve got more experience. If you’re going to focus on all this stuff then you’re killing and prolonging your dreams….and you’ve just got a bigger problem to sort out because eventually you’re going to have to realise if you’re SOOOO serious about having your dreams that the only time is NOW and you’re just going to have to get on with it and make it happen!
If you’re impatient like me….and stubborn enough to keep pushing for your dreams like me even though it feels so unreal….it feels like you can’t WAIT any longer to have them. You keep saying enough is enough… then don’t listen to the people who says it takes time, you need to be ‘there’ before you can do that. If you have this strong vision…this strong desire….and you’re so stubborn and impatient for it like me, I urge you to decide NOW….and to make everyday ALL day about living your dreams in however way you CAN. BE the person that has your dreams. DO the stuff the person who has your dreams would be doing. Make a list of what that would look like….
It is simple…write a list of what you want. Tell me how you can implement each of those things NOW….everyday….
you say you don’t have money for THAT…..I’m sure there is something you can be doing to create it into reality eventually. What you focus on daily will come about MAGICALLY and quickly. It just depends on how much you want it, how much you’re obsessed by it. How obsessed are you?! How all in are you?!
Seriously the only way is DAILY….
Tell me what you can do DAILY, tell me how you can BE daily that represents your dream life….the ‘there’ that you’re waiting for. If you need help and support in realising what you need to do daily then I’d love to be that person to help you create your dreams magically! Seriously, every second that you are being and doing THAT person you need to be….things shift around you….magic happens.
Ever heard that saying “Everything always comes at once!” That’s because when you’re in the zone of who you are, your dreams, you ARE in your dreams!!! You don’t get them one by one….it is kinda all or nothing….you don’t wait around to receive them bit by bit…..you don’t focus on doing the perfect strategy to get them, it’ not a checklist or step by step…. unless your dreams are of what’s practical and easy and straightforward (yawn).
Dreams are magnificent….Your dreams come to life by snowballing
by jumping ALL in!
by BEING all in
by creating the impossible when you feel impossible….even when you THINK you’re failing, when you think everything is going to fall apart…
by you being in the ZONE, by YOU, everything about you RIGHT now ENCOMPASSING your dreams!
Journal and tell me what the YOU who encompasses your dreams….the YOU who is living your dreams RIGHT now would be thinking, being, doing, walking, talking, breathing, moving….and just DO BE and HAVE that….if you manage it for a hour even….tell me what magic happens when you are living as your dreams!!
You have to rely on magic! You have to rely on believing in something unpractical if your dreams feel impossible! Because I believe it does take magic. But we are all capable of creating that magic! EASILY!
(Yes I know it feels f$%*ing hard and impossible….and how you just want someone to tell you the perfect PRACTICAL thing to do to create it now!) but you know the only way you’re going to get there is through ….faith….trust….magic…blessings….miracles that DO happen when you get in the zone of YOUR TRUE SELF!
I dare you to set your alarm every hour and when it goes off to keep reminding yourself of who you need to be, what you need to be doing if you WERE that person who has ALL that you dream of! And then do it! TRAIN your mind! I dare you to see what miracles happen…what you manifest ….what you create…what amazing opportunity comes your way that is so in alignment to your dreams!
Be, do and have your dreams NOW…..seriously that’s the only way you’re going to get them…..and stay that way….every time you slip up, pick yourself up and get back to who and what you need to be! It isn’t about the how….it isn’t about the perfect strategy, it isn’t about the step by step, the perfect plan, the perfect timing, the readiness!
Join my Dream Mastermind private group and surround yourself with other like minded dreamers….we’ll INSIST you create your dreams NOW!!