The chatter that goes on inside you that questions whether you’re good enough, that makes you PROCRASTINATE massively and self-doubt yourself, holds you back from doing the things you know you should be doing to create your dreams, it asks you “who am I to do that”, it makes you want to give up, and question what you’re even doing in the first place….even though deep deep down somewhere you’re so passionate about making it work….you desire sooo badly for it to work….it hurts that it hasn’t worked yet, you haven’t got the results, the reaction that you want….you feel like giving up you really do!
Your mind tells you whats the point, you can’t be bothered to ‘fight’ this battle, you don’t know if you have what it takes to make it work, to push through all these barriers and just MAKE it work. It feels like your heart is sighing inside. Are you doing something wrong? Were you crazy to think this would even work? Why are you even doing this?! Does this realllyyyyyy matter to you that badly like how you claimed you were so passionate about it in the first place? Cos at the moment it’s feeling pretty useless and you’re kind of forgetting what is the point of it all, why you’re even passionate about it?! You feel a heavy energy inside of you…you just want to let go of everything and not give a f$%!….yet at the same time you can’t help but hold soooo tightly because this is your dreams after all! You don’t want to give up! You wouldn’t without a fight! But the resistance is just too much! You’re really not in the mood to break through this wall right now….it all feels too tough and you’re not in the mood today!
…Of course you have the grit the determination and the ambition and the hard worker inside you to make it work…to do the immense hard work no matter how HARD it is….how gruelling and gritting your teeth it is…no matter the long hours…the forcing yourself to stay up so you can get everything done even when you don’t feel like it….you have that inside you because you’ve done it so many times! But right now that fighter inside you is losing to the chatter inside you that is making you feel too tired to give it your ALL, give it your passion, give it your ABSOLUTE BEST! It just wants it to be easy. Its begging for your dreams to be easy. It’s not up for the ‘hard’ work today, for the challenges. You’re kind of giving into the resistance your mind has created.
But for some reason….You don’t feel like it BUT you’re showing up anyway, you’re still ‘trying’ today. Even though its with minimal effort, even though you’re not in the zone, because no matter what your mind is telling you your heart doesn’t want you to give up and your heart’s desires are so compelling you show up even though you’re feeling so much resistance because of the things you’re listening to inside your head.
When you feel like you’re losing faith, when you feel like giving into the voices in your mind, when you’re believing that “it’s never gonna work out” in the way you dreamed of, you’re questioning “what’s the point” of this all…. Know that you’ve made a choice, to listen to your mind over your heart, and your mind wants to keep you in its comfort zone…. The thoughts and fears and resistance and doubt your mind creates isn’t real, the only real thing is your heart. Your heart, your desires and dreams that you are MORE than capable of achieving, you CAN 100% achieve them no matter how impossible it is looking and feeling right now….no matter the situation you’ve created for yourself because your mind is causing you to self-sabotage. You just need to go WITHIN and connect back with your heart and get out of your mind….stop chatting and listening to the thoughts that are just that, and are definitely not real unless you choose to follow them and create them into reality.
Go back into your heart, the one that came up with your dream (and you would have never come up with that dream if you couldn’t create it! Your heart ABSOLUTELY can create it if you choose to listen to it instead of your mind that’s just sabotaging you, slowing you down, creating loads of obstacles and EXCUSES for yourself, creating countless resistance, doesn’t believe in impractical, in big dreams that require stepping out of your comfort zone and challenging yourself and growing in ways that hurts sometimes….)
Go within and connect to your heart and go back to the bigger picture. The fact that it’s hard right now, the fact that it sucks right now and feels so impossible doesn’t matter and isn’t real….get in the zone of what you dream of, the big picture vision that lights you up and IS keeping you going (almost) and connect back to that, feel that dream through your soul, and use that energy to inspire you back into action from a heartfelt place…to motivate you and excite you and get you to act in a far more powerful way because you’re back into alignment with your true self! Rather than listening to your mind, which keeps you feeling resistance, makes you feel tired and can’t be bothered because all it can see is how it’s never gonna work and how are you ever going to achieve it, and you’re already FAILING so you may as well give up now as what’s the point…!
If you’re struggling with the self-doubt and constant questioning and constant psyching yourself up, stop every hour throughout the day, and go within, connect to your heart, your authentic you and get in the zone of your heart’s big dream vision and of who you need to BE if you are to create and achieve that vision! Keep yourself on your heart’s pathway, otherwise before you know it you’re so far off the pathway you just won’t know how to get back on… just because you chose to listen to the chatter your mind tells you which is JUST fear and is never real.
You are ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS good enough, capable enough, worthy and deserving and have ALL the power and value you need inside you right now right this second to achieve what you dream of…..it’s just how much you’re letting your mind get in the way. Ask yourself what do you need to believe if you know you so absolutely can do this, not just scrape through and leave to luck…to just ‘see’ what happens, but do so AMAZINGLY and effortlessly! What do you need to believe to achieve your dreams EASILY EFFORTLESSLY whilst ENJOYING them and having fun?! Because that is all it takes….change your beliefs they will impact your actions. You believe it’s hard, and impossible. Then you create hard and impossible. It COULD be easy…..effortless….fun….what does that look like for you and your dream?! Create it into reality! And no matter how icky you feel about your dreams today….show up anyway because you will get there when you show up DAILY and even though your mind is doing its best to tell you it doesn’t feel like it today…even though it feels like you’re getting there inch by inch it will snowball magically IF you show up even when you don’t feel like it and keep connecting back to your heart!