This week I have been living in Bali for a year!
Making the spontaneous decision to book a one way ticket to live in Bali has been the best decision I’ve ever made in me finally truly following my dreams and deciding to create a new story for myself! It gave me the blank canvas and freedom to create my life as I wanted, BE the person I wanted to be, and do the things I wanted to do.
I remember when I made the decision, and I was talking to one of my coaches at the time about my plans, I said I didn’t know anyone in Bali, I’ve never been to Bali, I don’t have any plans, I hadn’t saved anything or have anything specific there to do or go to when I’m there, I just felt INSPIRED by Bali and the digital nomad lifestyle and being surrounded by other like minded entrepreneurs and it being a place where I could produce my swimwear designs and create my blog and online coaching biz. But part of not having a raison d’être in Bali made me feel unconfident and wonder “what am I doing?!”
…my coach said but maybe that’s a good thing… to see “nothing” as space – “you have space in it to create what you want”
💜💜💜 “IF YOU CAN SEE YOURSELF AS AN ARTIST, AND YOU CAN SEE THAT YOUR LIFE IS YOUR OWN CREATION, THEN WHY NOT CREATE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL STORY FOR YOURSELF?” ~ DON MIGUEL RIUZ 💜💜💜
And I truly believe this is the case. You have to see your life as a blank canvas, you get to paint exactly what you want on it and fill it with the stuff you love and create your own beautiful story, rather than letting “life” fill that canvas for you with things you “have to” or “should”, or other people’s expectations of you or what society dictates to you.
If you feel stuck, lost or unfulfilled in where you are right now, but you’re full of dreams and ideas of the life you’d love to create, that you keep pushing down inside you because you don’t believe in them, you’re unclear, or full of self-doubt, if you want to create anything amazing in life you HAVE to create space for it!
Space = freedom
Freedom to be who you want to be, do the things you really want
To allow new experiences to arrive
To “play” / experiment with the things you’d love to be doing to find out what works for you and have the time to figure things out
To not be anxious or worried about things you are tied down to
Without the pressure of other people’s expectations, judgements or limiting beliefs being thrown at you whilst you’re still at this stage of figuring it all out
Without being confined to what is already around you (aka the reflection of your existing beliefs)
In this way you get to choose exactly what works for you, and fill your space and freedom with things you LOVE
Instead of putting up with things deep down you wouldn’t if you had the choice to. It allows you to dream bigger and actually do the stuff you deeply desire instead of settling and playing small
When you have complete space and freedom, you can’t but not choose to follow a path and do the things that you’re meant to do and feel truly called to!
You have the freedom to act in spite of your fears because you have nothing to lose
If you know you want to create a life where you feel like you’re living your dreams, you’re following the destiny you know deep down you’re meant to, rather than waking up feeling lost, not sure where you’re going or feeling incapable of creating what you want to create….
💜 Where are you confining yourself?
💜 Where are you deep down settling?
💜 Where are you making your dreams small in fear of your bigger desires not being possible for you?
💜 Where can you create the space and freedom in your life to follow the adventure you dream of living?
I have been working with Martha Beck coaches for just over a year and a half. Martha Beck calls her coaches “Wayfinders” – a term originally used for people who used to sail across the world with no tools to navigate, by just using their senses and “personal” navigation to find their way across the waves.
A Martha Beck “wayfinder” is someone who finds their way and teaches others to find their own way. No two ways are the same.
💜 I completely relate to being a wayfinder, as being someone who was full of dreams and ideas but feeling lost in who I was and lacking belief in myself. The massive key in creating the life I wanted and finding my fulfilment and way was by embarking on my own personal adventure ~ aka moving to Bali to create a whole new life and the journey that entailed to get to where I am now today….
💜 I truly want to inspire you to create your own dreamy adventure!
💜 Following your dreams and creating the life you desire requires you to create your own little adventure!
💜 What may be an “adventure” for you will look completely different for others. No matter the adventure you choose to take on, no matter how small or unconfident you may feel, know that you’re completely powerful and have what it takes inside you to navigate any of the choppy waves you WILL no doubt experience along the way. You’re not helpless or powerless and you completely have what it takes to solve all of life’s “puzzles” along the way to get you to wherever you want to get to.
When you find yourself lost, stuck or full of self-doubt, deep down you aren’t fully trusting and believing in you…
You already know who you are and where you want to go and exactly how to get there
But you just have to TRUST and BELIEVE in all of what you already know in order to even KNOW it, be clear on it, let alone take action on it.
My biggest lesson and my biggest message is how you just have to believe in you and be completely grounded in who you are at the heart, your inner-wisdom and your dreams, and keep committing and re-committing to you.
Self-love is the key to following your dreams but it isn’t just a one-stop destination, you have to keep grounding back to you, re-committing to you!
If you would like to be supported and guided as you follow your dreams and creating the life and happiness you desire, and are excited about going all in on being the woman you deep down know you already are, and committing to creating more change and amazingness for yourself, then please send me a message to request a complimentary 30 min call or book yours in here
💗 Follow your heart and trust your *inner-light*! 💗
This is for the woman who would love to create:
💕 A whole new path of happiness that feels completely in alignment to the true you
💕 Self-love, Confidence, Certainty and Clarity in your dreams, who you are, and more trust & belief in yourself
💕 Freedom to travel/have enough money for your dreams/desires and be able to create and live your life by your own rules
💕 Creative *girl-boss* success ~ turn your passions, creativity and dreams into a biz in a way that truly lights you up and makes you feel good about you!
💕 Feel like you’re living into your destiny and fulfilling your *soul* work ~ your life has a deep meaning/purpose
💕 Inspire and help other people
💕 Mindfulness & humbleness- a feeling of inner world-peace & spiritual fulfilment
💕 Glamorous yet soulful personal style and lifestyle
💕 Dream soulmate relationships
& finally STOP feeling lost, stuck, unfulfilled, unclear, not good enough, full of WORRY and self-doubt, & blocked from all that you really want!