True happiness, the stuff that will make you really really happy, will be from actions YOU took from a mindset of self-love and because you OWNED your happiness.
It won’t come from the fearful mindset that you can’t create what you want, or doubting that your dreams and happiness is even possible for you ~ it will come when you acted in-spite of fear, in-spite of the risks, in-spite of the challenges you knew it would bring, because you were willing to do whatever it takes to create it!
You MAKE your happiness.
This has been something that was super hard for me to truly get! I was constantly falling into victim mode, letting life happen TO me, WAITING for my dreams, my happiness to COME to me, secretly always falling back into beliefs that I must be *doomed*, I wasn’t meant to be happy or have what I want, or WHEN is it going to happen to me! But as soon as you fall into this mindset, that’s exactly what you get! You’re waiting for the outside to give you your happiness!
Real dreams will come from the inside…
“You will see it when you believe it” ~ Wayne Dyer
This really used to trip me up! Sometimes ‘believing’ in it can feel fake!
If this is tripping you up too – know it’s about how you fully OWN your happiness (rather than holding so tightly to a very specific outcome coming true) and take full CONTROL! Becoming the BOSS of your dreams and happiness!
Real abundance, love and happiness will come because you didn’t wait for it in any shape or form for it to come to you. That means whatever the outcome of anything you had already decided you would be happy!
This isn’t about settling in what you want either! It’s about not settling in your inner-VIBE!
You don’t come from a place of “I’ll be happy when….”, expecting life to change and outside stuff to then make you happy! Because even if you get that thing, sooner or later you’ll wind back to where you are if you haven’t worked on this part of your self-love mindset.
Owning it means you don’t half-ass your actions because you don’t truly quite believe in them, or you feel unsure in your core, or you haven’t quite fully decided, or it doesn’t feel *quite* right or aligned, or you don’t feel worthy enough for them…or you haven’t quite accepted yourself…or you aren’t quite sure in who you are…
If you’re struggling to keep yourself afloat in consistent happiness, love and money like I have also struggled to….
Get into HUMBLE mode! Humble is your spiritual, divine feminine, self-loving, oneness mindset!
Your inner-humble B*%$:
💜 She loves herself with no ego, from a place of just knowing it’s the LAW that she is infinitely worthy
💜 She knows deep down she has a divine intuition inside her that she can powerfully trust, that if she follows will lead to amazing things for herself, so she stops to tune in, and has massive faith and is willing to take RISKS in following what she feels inside!
💜 She believes in oneness, how every living breathing thing is made from the same stuff as she is ~ love, and no one or no thing makes her or anyone else no more or no less. She isn’t stuck up in what she wants, the only thing she is willing to be stuck-up in is what she’s worth and not tolerating anything that is unloving towards her.
💜 She wants to be able to help others even if she doesn’t always know *how*
💜 She grounds herself by filling herself up with love from REAL things, not superficial temporary things
💜 She doesn’t place superficial conditions to her happiness and her beliefs in what makes her worthy now, she knows she is enough now and she CAN be happy, rich and loved NOW and always.
That is, you’re not asking for things from the universe that you think will solve all your problems…
~ “If I receive £x then everything will be okay”
~ “If he loves me then everything will then be okay”
if you’re waiting and asking for that windfall to come and solve your problems it will never come! And even if it does…you’ll find yourself in struggle further down the line. If you’re waiting for that guy to give you the love you want to feel good in you, he won’t ever come or make you happy!
The only thing that can create your dreams and happiness is the humble b%*! inside you!
+ It doesn’t mean you lose self-doubt
+ It doesn’t mean you lose fear
+ It doesn’t mean you stop questioning yourself
+ It doesn’t mean you will stop slipping into sabotaging behaviour
It means you were willing to fully OWN what you want and act in-spite of fear, in-spite of the constant unsureness, self-doubt and questions that will inevitably come up with the intention that when they do, you’ll STILL follow all the way through.
It means you act from a place of complete surrender and decided it’s “Me, Myself and I”….you’re willing to fully trust you, for you, by you, with nothing but you! You’re endorsing yourself in mind body and soul!
You’re not going to wait for any type of validation, permission, love or abundance from anyone else but yourself
You’ve decided to live FOR you as if nothing else matters but you and your divine priorities and what you truly value!
Follow your heart always and trust in your inner-light! 🙂 💜💕✨🌈
Are you a Dreamer looking to say YES to your dreams and happiness and finally follow your heart, with confidence, clarity, and self-love, to design the path you know deep down you’re meant for? If so, please request a free call to discuss the options for coaching:
This is for the girl who would love to create:
💕 A whole new path of happiness that feels completely in alignment to the true you
💕 Self-love, Confidence, Certainty and Clarity in your dreams, who you are, and more trust & belief in yourself
💕 Freedom to travel/have enough money for your dreams/desires and be able to create and live your life by your own rules
💕 Creative *girl-boss* success ~ turn your passions, creativity and dreams into a biz in a way that truly lights you up and makes you feel good about you!
💕 Feel like you’re living into your destiny and fulfilling your *soul* work ~ your life has a deep meaning/purpose
💕 Inspire and help other people
💕 Mindfulness & humbleness- a feeling of inner world-peace & spiritual fulfilment
💕 Glamorous yet soulful personal style and lifestyle
💕 Dream soulmate relationships
& finally STOP feeling lost, stuck, unfulfilled, unclear, not good enough, full of WORRY and self-doubt, & blocked from all that you really want!